Thursday, May 30, 2013

Summer is here for Shane

Shane had his completion ceremony today - let the summer begin.  But first some super cute singing.  Before the started the day I asked him to sing as loud as possible...  here he is!
Can you find him?



Love this song - 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QfdZbuMEH9c&feature=share&list=UUVOS8rAoIkMr_viSR6tsaFw

Here is a little 'jesus loves me' but it didn't come out as well..  Just love the song.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yHSsA-SZSv8&feature=share&list=UUVOS8rAoIkMr_viSR6tsaFw

Love the red carpet idea

Shane and Ms. Dusti - she is such a wonderful teacher and we are so fortunate to have her.  Her car for the children and creative learning ideas are a true treasure.
my cuddly graduate!

A fun weekend away

On Saturday morning I kept into Nick's room (really Drew's room, but with him traveling - the boys have been enjoying a bit of night time separation)  I knew he was awake and I just wanted the morning time to chat with him.  He sweetly rolled over and said - 'mom, can I come with you today to pick up Drew?'  well how sweet I thought....  without me saying anything - he added another statement.  "I just don't remember that car that I saw drew driving - I think Oma Sue and Goomba have new toys there...'  Sweet moment gone...  geesh.  

So on Saturday off I flew to Grab Mr. Drew.  I landed at a desolate Bradley international airport at 7pm after a VERY RELAXING SOLO flight.  I swear it was TOO SHORT.  My mom picked me up.  Drew was sleeping by the time I got home.  I walked in the door, the table to set for dinner and my dad asked me what he could get me to drink.  Now THIS was true pampering.  I had a wonderful night just me and my folks.  Thank you!

The next morning we met Stacie's family at a spot in between both of us.  The kids did a great job while we had pizza at Uno's - and than we hit the park.  
If only the weather was better because this park was AWESOME!

See the umbrellas?  We were all actually wishing for wool sweaters too.

Meanwhile - jason ran through all the slides testing everything out!
Baby jackson spent his time snoozing away in the warm car.  That newborn stage can be so wonderful!  It was great catching their family as the bright spot in our dreary Sunday afternoon.  Next time we will do a picinic at the park!

Monday morning was MUCH better and perfect for my hometown parade.
The parade probably lasted 10 minutes 
Here's the Jr. High band.  I have such fond memories of playing in the 'big' simsbusy parade and on the arm memorial day weekends we headed back to my folks house for a pool type volleyball tourney.  
prime seating
We even stayed for the cemetery ceremony.
but all things must end and it was time for Drew and I to fly home.  The flight was only an hour - so piece of cake - But Drew was ready to be DONE.
Best suitcase pusher!
The afternoon ended with the family together and a BBQ with our wonderful buddies.
  
It is memorial day so truly a time to remember those that serve our country.  I am so thankful that our family has a long line of those that have served.  As i look at my 3 boys I wonder which one - any or all will choose to do the same.  Time will tell

Miles apart

 
With Chris headed out for a work week of travel and my parents packing their bags to head home - they offered to take a little stow-away.  Mr. Drew willingly (almost too willingly) joined in the packing.  He waved goodbye to all of us and probably wondered if we were following in the car behind - However he was SO lucky to be pampered all week.
Look, covered up and all.  The care he will get with Oma Sue and Goomba.
Since Chris and I were 'man on man' for the evening we opted to treat the boys to a rare dinner out - and where would Drew be almost impossible....  yup, Benihana...
Whenever Drew is away - Shane resorts back to life as the 'baby' he happily jumps in the stroller or enjoys an extra snooze with Momma...
Meanwhile in a some across town - Drew was checking into the toy set up with Goomba
and headed out to do morning chores with Oma Sue - nice matching boots.
feeding the fish and throwing rocks - sounds about right!
Next he began his studies for his future career as a sprinkler system designer.  Step one - know your materials!
Another treat for the boys by momma - a Wednesday night at the Theater - Shane hasn't ever been to the theater which would be just fine - however Nick likes to remind him of this...  So we went!  The 3 of us saw Croods - a cute cartoon about a 'cave family' and I cried a few times - but loved the side comments from Shane saying....  did you see that??
We had popcorn, water and the place ALMOST to ourselves.  Who else walks to the movies on the Wednesday of a school night.  Just us.
My folks were so good about sending photos throughout the day - we were missing Drew - but not the added dimension at the moment.  But when Nick saw this photo - he took inventory in his head of the toys he remembered at Oma Sue's and Goomba's and this was not in his memory bank.
Nice driving Drew
Oma Sue sure has a lot of plants to water.
and goomba likes to walk and get the paper.
I am so thankful my folks are so willing and able to lavish some extra love on Drew this week.  I loved catching my mom during moments throughout the day - stressed, nap time, dinner time, bedtime...  Her trials and tribulations with dinner time antics.  I am sure there are many times when we chat that i say things that she may remember about life raising kids - during this week, I heard my mom say MANY things that I say today about raising kids.  I know she has an appreciation for the day to day crazy at my house - but having just one - it has been further solidified.  I loved it!

By the time I arrived to pick him up on Saturday I'm pretty sure he was convinced 'mama' meant me to my mom.  I think he was a bit torn on whether he wanted to rejoin crazy town or not =)!  Mom and Dad I cannot thank you enough for loving my boys and for keeping yourselves healthy to keep up with them - but yes, raising kids is for the young!!

Who cuts their hair?

These are Shane's school photos and when i got them in my hands my first thought was... who cuts his har?!?!  Right, I do....  Geesh,
Nice watch =)! (thanks El)
This is the one i chose to keep - honestly, how can you not?!?!  Nice outfit Tate =)!
Alright, so back to the drawing board on the haircut department.

I'm not a huge fan of the buzz cut - so my desire to add a little style has its challenges...  Their hair is just so different


This guy especially! 
But the end result.....

o.k. life happened before I could grab my camera and take the official after photo so this was a few days after....






Ninja Shane

With all the ninja excitement for little boys - we had to give it a shot to see what it was all about.  Shane was up for a little Wednesday morning activity and really enjoyed the structure and instruction.  The trampoline at the end was always a treat.

Nick was the assistant in this photo.
Can you hear the HiYA? 
How bout now?

Although Shane enjoyed the little class with just him and another boy David.  He really liked it when Nick joined too.  As I am reading the book "siblings without rivalry" I am enjoying the times with the 'lack of rivalry' in our house.


Childhood milestones

Children milestones are some of the most treasured events for a family.  That vivid memory of watching your child pedal off wobbly at first - but soon with confidence as the legs gain strengths and understanding ...  Well here is our newest cycler.....  never even considered training wheels and just wanted to do it!

Cyclist

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xKO5_NRQeG4

Next up - how much time does a parent spend - pushing the swing, higher, higher, higher, and than all of a sudden with sometimes minimal notice - the child is reaching even higher heights.  It really happens just like that - Nick is amazed with what he can do!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TIhFRAopSj4

Finally - the confidence my little guy had as he added the milestone of a week with grandma and grandpa.  Thankfully I have great memories of time spent with my grandparents - to include a 50th anniversary party at their mobile home park in AZ - just me!  I loved it.  Now of course drew may not remember his super special week with my folks - but I will never forget his simple little wave as he drove off in the car - thanks to my folks for this awesome video - see you soon buddy!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CQhOA_eGGTg






Thursday, May 23, 2013

Holding onto things


Sometimes I make fun of my parents for holding onto things and sometimes I love it.  I do congratulate them for everything that makes its way OUT of their house - this one came INTO my house.  It was a gift from a good friend from 1994 - just reading the inscription brought me back to life for me in 1994.  In our very connected world i was able to take a photo of this book and reconnect with him - That alone was worth keeping.